The idea of how a woman might keep her man
faithful differs from one person to another, and this is informed by the
degrees of experience, as well as, knowledge at the disposal of each person.
Let me quickly point out two oppositions in
this subject matter:
·The world belief.
·The religion (Christianity) belief.
While the generality of people in the world
might say that sex calms the man down or that it makes the man to be contended
with his woman, the Christian faith is of other view – capitalising on the
regeneration of the mind.
“Let this mind be in
you which was also in Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not
consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation,
taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. And being
found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the
point of death, even the death of the cross.” Phil 2:5-8 (NKJV).
Though, people are now realising that sex does
not pin a man to a woman at, even, a 40% rate. Yet, the world system place
maximum priority on sex.
The real idea can only
come from the creator and not sex. Do you think otherwise? Then consider the
contents below:
According to an article, 5 Ways To Keep Your Man
From Cheating, on hellobeautiful.com, a woman could keep her
man from cheating by doing any of the Five things here:
1.Give him some good love.
2.Know his friends.
3.Let Him Know The Consequences, of cheating.
4.Let Him Know He’s Special.
5.Take Interest – in what he has interest.
Now,
if a man, married or engaged, could be kept back from cheating by these simple
acts, then there will be less infidelity cases everywhere in the world.
Are
women not showing love to their men? Do not women know the friends of their
men? Do not men know the consequences of cheating on their women. That they
might catch Sexually Transmitted Diseases and that their marriage/relationship
will be jeopardised? Are women, directly or indirectly, not taking interest in
things that are of interest to their men?
Then
why do we have troubles in the world – as a result of failures in the homes if
the suggestions by hellobeautiful.com could work wonders?
The
answer is just that ‘most contracted marriages were done on failed
foundations’: those involved in the failed marriages contracted them based on
what they could feel and not that they were both convinced of each other or
that they believed that the future would be troublesome; they were
short-sighted of the reality side of life.
Why regeneration is the answer
“Wherefore if any man is in
Christ, (he is) a new creature: the old things are passed away; behold, they
are become new”, (2 Cor 5:17, ASV).
Every
man has the tendency to be unfaithful but when he is regenerated, he would not
only be responsible to the woman in his life alone but to God (first and
foremost).
When
a man is born again and he finds a woman of like-mind, the woman would not have
so much troubles or burdens to bear with the man again. They will only be
preoccupied with settling issues in their lives that are not right yet.
How to find the regenerated
man
The
woman must be in God herself before she could have the type of man that we are
talking about. Of truth, some women are good at pretending until such men
worked into their traps before they begin to vomit the venom in their
characters: being circumspect would keep the regenerated men from falling to
such ditches.
So
you could see that there is no hiding place in what we are talking about: birds
of the same feathers flock together.
It
is either a woman is regenerated herself in order to have a regenerated man, or
she tries to deceive a supposedly regenerated man but ends up deceiving the
most crooked guy – she had ever seen in her life.
The remedy after mistake
The
remedy at your disposal now is Jesus Christ: He will change your life and
change your partner for the two of you to start a new life of hope, happiness
and satisfaction. What you will do now is to call him into your life.
Please
say this prayer:
Lord Jesus, the Son of God,
please forgive me of all my sins. I come totally unto you for the salvation of
my soul: do not let my life remain the same again.
Let me keep enjoying your
love and fellowship from henceforth, and at end of my life, help me to inherit
the Kingdom of God with eternal glory.
In Jesus name: Amen.
You
can locate any church around you and start to fellowship with them, but you are
advised to have a Bible of your own which you can read at all times.
The idea of how a woman might keep her man
faithful differs from one person to another, and this is informed by the
degrees of experience, as well as, knowledge at the disposal of each person.