+ How partners can
develop winning habits in relationship
This
is really a turbulent time in world economy: prices of goods and services are
fluctuating, salaries are not increased but the needs of man are (always) insatiable.
Who
are those that will survive this season of economy downturn? Those that will
come out stronger, richer and better? Who are those that will lead the best
kind of live after this economy hardship is gone?
Some
people will be suggesting different things by now. Like saying: the rich,
wealthy, politicians, those in highest paying jobs, the educated, business
owners and the likes. In fact, some will say children of God, people that have
bought shares or those that had invested into profits yielding businesses.
While
the categories of people (above) make enough sense. We want to tell you that
the category of people that will come back – standing firm on their feet, are
families in which there is synergy: no matter the level of income.
‘United we stand’ –
always win
Consider
a family of the rich, where the father, the mother and the children do (only) what
pleases each other – without consideration for one another.
Do
you think there can be complete peace in there? They may have all things going
well for them, but they are (all) hurting in parts – that when this economic
recession is over (they come out fine) but they will still continue to live in
bitterness against one another, sadness of heart, rejection, etc.
However,
when the reverse is the case (no matter the status of the family), by the time
they come out of the economic recession – it will be with fulfillment,
happiness that connotes ‘yes, we did it together’: this is the type of synergy
that causes achievements to have meaning.
Morris
Cerullo, in GOD’S ENDTIME PROTECTION – FAMILY POWER PACT, said that you must
learn the enemies strategy to protect your family.
“In this endtime… Satan is attacking
families with every evil strategy possible. To prophetically protect your
family you must first recognize his evil strategies, and then know how to seize
victory over his attacks in every area of your life”.[1]
How
do you, then, fight for your family if there is no synergy in there? Even, the
Bible suggests it is good for two people to dwell together, but it must be in
agreement.
“Can two walk together, except they be
agreed?” Amos 3:3, KJV.
“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for
brethren to dwell together in unity!” Psalm 133:1, KJV.
“… but woe to him that is alone when he
falleth; for he hath not another to help him up”. Ecclesiastes 4:10.
Synergy for
relationship success defined
Synergy
simply refers to ‘combined action’. In this view, synergy can either be
positive or negative.
When
two or more people agree to defraud another person – that is negative synergy,
but when people agree to do good to others, transact businesses with
credibility, and/or be involved in social reformation – then, there will be a
positive synergy.
For
a successful relationship, therefore, partners must develop synergy in the
following areas to enjoy their union to the core. Please, bear in mind that
‘relationship’ as used in this articles refers to either ‘marriage’, ‘dating’
or ‘courting’.
These
include, but not limited to:
1.Prayer:
together, for each other.
2.Collaboration.
3.Open
mindedness with each other.
4.Positive
representations of each other.
5.Financial
agreement: including planning and executions.
6.Unconditional
love for each other.
7.Self
sacrifices.
8.Putting
the other before oneself.
9.Consistent
communications. It helps to quickly resolve disagreement.
10. Pleasing each other – in godly means.
We
guarantee success, happiness and faithfulness in (any) union that tries these
things.
We
wish all relationships (on good course) and marriages – success.
[1]
Morris, Cerullo, God’s Endtime Protection – Family Power Pact, Pg3.
